I’m in love with the memories, with what could have been. I fantasize about our story, the past struggles we made it through. I romanticize everything but the reality. I’m not in love with you. I’m in love with the idea of you. I’m in love with the imaginary person I wish you were for me.
The idea that fertile people with vaginas shouldn’t have PnV sexual intercourse until they are ready to get pregnant assumes that all fertile people with vaginas want to be pregnant someday, which is a laughable and absurd assumption.